Resources

Supporting Someone
You Care About

When someone you love is facing an unplanned pregnancy, you want to help but might not know how. Whether you're a partner, parent, or friend, this page is for you.

For Partners & Boyfriends

She told you she might be pregnant, and you're probably feeling a lot of things right now. That's normal. How you respond in this moment matters more than you know.

Do's

  • Listen without trying to immediately fix everything
  • Ask "How can I support you?" and follow through
  • Offer to come to appointments with her
  • Educate yourself about the options together
  • Be patient—she may need time to process
  • Reassure her that you're in this together

Don'ts

  • Don't pressure her toward any decision
  • Don't make it about you or your feelings only
  • Don't disappear or go silent
  • Don't share her news without permission

"The best thing he did was just show up. He didn't have all the answers, but he was there."

— A Choices client

Resources for Men

You can call us too. We're here to help you support her.

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For Parents

Finding out your daughter is pregnant can bring up a flood of emotions—shock, fear, disappointment, worry. All of that is valid. But how you respond right now will shape your relationship for years to come.

First Steps

  • Take a deep breath before responding
  • Thank her for trusting you enough to tell you
  • Tell her you love her—she needs to hear it
  • Ask what she needs from you right now
  • Focus on her well-being, not blame or shame

What She Needs Most

  • Unconditional love and support
  • Space to make her own decisions
  • Help navigating practical next steps
  • Someone to go to appointments with her
  • A listening ear without lectures

"My mom's first reaction was tears. But then she hugged me and said, 'We'll figure this out together.' That changed everything."

— A Choices client

Helpful Resources

We support the whole family. Call us to talk through how you can help.

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For Friends

Your friend trusted you with something huge. That means you matter to her. You don't have to have all the answers—just being there is more powerful than you think.

How to Help

  • Be present and available
  • Let her talk without giving opinions unless asked
  • Offer practical help (rides, research)
  • Respect her privacy
  • Check in regularly—not just once

What Not to Do

  • Don't share her news with others
  • Don't tell her what you would do
  • Don't judge her feelings or decisions
  • Don't disappear because it's uncomfortable

"She didn't try to tell me what to do. She just said, 'I'm here for you no matter what.' That meant everything."

— A Choices client

Share With Her

Want to help but not sure how? We can guide you.

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We're Here for You Too

Supporting someone through an unplanned pregnancy is hard. You don't have to do it alone. Our team is here to help you navigate this alongside the person you care about.

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